ok here is what i traced

max232 pins 2,5 (INVALID, FORCEON) goes to PIC pin 30 (RC0/T1OSO/T13CKI)
max232 pin 4 (T1IN TTL/CMOS Transmitter Outputs) goes to PIC oun 31 (RC6/TX/CK)
max232 pin 6 (R1OUT TTL/CMOS Receiver Outputs) goes to PIC pin 32 (RC7/RX/DT)

does this sound like it makes any sence? can USART pins be used to program a part of the chips memory ?