Skimask, i tried that code you posted, still nothing,... im going up to my otehr computer to see if i can attach a copy of the schematic... i dont think i messed up the hardware, but im kinda scared i did.. when i put my meter across:
OSC1-OSC2, it shows 0V
OSC1-GND, it shows 2.5V
OSC2-GND, it shouws 3.6V

PGM is grounded through a 1Mohm resistor,
all power and ground pins are connected including Avdd and Avss