I'm always amused at people's attitude that everyone else owes them a living. There's no such thing, or I've growed up the wrong way. It also amazes me that if someone loses a job they jump right in and get another one !

The world is full of opportunities, mostly we're too lazy to look for them, but those that do does flourich. Which is why you see adds all the time.. a way of finding another buyer or job to do.

Do what others won't, so you can have what others don't ! I bet if you do a little summary of how you really spent your time and what you do you'll get an eye opener. Next time you see someone so "lucky" to "have it all" think for a change - that guy did something to get there.

I was also a jobber a long time ago, I just got fed up with making someone else rich and having to have to listen to their crap and them decide what I'm worth. I decided the little grey matter I have could be put to better use.

A little planning also goes a long way, especially with a pen and paper. (Another new set of tools here !)

It does however boils down to one thing - ATTITUDE !