Hi Jessey,

Just use whatever cap values are specified by the manufacturer of the crystal.

I've been using the SE3201 32kHz cylinder type with 12.5pF caps for years and it's rock solid. Never had any start-up or accuracy problems with them.

I've got a whole box of them on-hand. Drop me an email with your shipping address, and I'll toss a couple SE3201 with caps in an envelope for you. No charge if you don't mind snail-mail..;o}