No I haven't entered any command line options. That is what I'm lookin for. I had previously read the information in the link you provided but it only suggests parameters for the PK3.

I looked at the readme for the ICD3 in the MPLABX docs but I do not see the options explained.

I also looked at MPLAB ICD 3 In-Circuit Debugger User's Guide for MPLAB X IDE but still do not see the command line options.

Clearly I'm missing something...