I dont know what happened to my last post.
i was trying to attach the screen shots but couldn't.
i connected breakout as you suggested and think i know what the problem is but not the solution lo
When i connected the Tx/Rx to the Rx of the Pc when i run my program
the pic is not sending anything to screen at all so this means the phone is not receiving anything so its not responding.
But if i then disconnect the phone DLR-3 cable from the serial port of my project board i can see the AT command being sent to the phone on screen so i think the phone cable maybe faulty.
i am still trying to get the shot to you but keep getting this massage below

Your file of 1.08 MB bytes exceeds the forum's limit of 200.0 KB for this filetype.

Isaac