Use a switch by change not on/off status.

[Archangel]

Ok, a JK FlipFlop is a 2 input one output device.
I am guessing you are using a latching relay which
changes states every time it is energised, is
this correct?

If so you need to read 2 pins to check switch state.

@ __config _INTRC_OSC_NOCLKOUT & _WDT_ON & _MCLRE_OFF & _CP_OFF
DEFINE OSC 4
TrisA = %00000011

TRISC = %00000000  
PortC = %00000000

ANSEL=0
ANSELH=0
ADCON0 = 0
ADCON1 = 0
Option_Reg = %00000000 ; enable RABPU
WPUA = %00000011  ;Set RABPU
Main:
If PortA.0 = 0 then 
portc.2 = 1
pause 500  ; 1/2 seconds of power out
portc.2 = 0
else
goto main
endif
goto Impatient  ; wait for microswitch to zero

Impatient:
while PortA.1 = 1
portc.3 = 1
pause 100
portc.3 = 0
pause 100
wend
if PortA.1 = 0 then goto main

end

Tested with 16F690 demo board. Weak pullups did not work, had to use real resistors, likely because the PICKit2 was still connected. LEDs were enabled to verify operation