Which Programmer?

[pedja089]

I use PICkit 3. Probably best buy for 40$. You can make zif adapter for it, if you like.
But I prefer leaving ICSP on board, it's easier and faster than swapping pic between board and programmer(especially in SMD package).

[Ramius]

Thank you and it turned out to be that I forgot to disable the FIFO on the USB port.