OK I JUST GOT IT TO WORK!!!

I feel like shooting someone... hehe.

I have to use the Resonator to get my 4mhz, and....

In my FUSE section I have to ENABLE "Powerup Timer"

After I did that, everything worked great, LCD and Servo & also the SERVO now has a 160 degree rotation with a resolution of 130!

Could someone explain to me what Powerup Timer is/does ?