Ok, in a moving forward fashion, I will start with the display

Seems we have 4 things of intrest hardware wise;
SD card slot - pretty self evident
JP1
JP2
PS0-PS3

JP1 and JP2 seem to be parallel connectors so this is now just JP1
This is our connection to the uP and other stuff.

PS0-PS3 are setup fuses. per suggestion from Daves thread, we want to set this as this:
PS0 not soldered
PS1 not soldered
PS2 soldered
PS3 soldered

This should give us 8 bit data and 4 wire SPI I think. But do we want 4 wire or 3?

Connection to the uP through JP1 is another post.
If this is wrong, please correct me someone

Where is the chip select for the touch screen controller? Pin 31 of JP1?