My MeLabs programmer has this interface. Is yours different?:
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With this one it is really easy to change the configs to WDT On. Just open the mcloader hex, then click on enable WDT, then program your chip.

I tried turning WDT on, and it was still able to read and write through the serial port using MCLoader. So it looks like you are right.