I finally found the problem thanks to rteo who advised that the 18F2550/4550 data sheet shows in one place that the external osc won't function with a supply voltage to the MCU of less than 4.2 volts. I had been running a supply voltage of 3.3 volts as a battery power conservation measure. I then experimented and discovered, rteo is partially correct.....my 18F2550 external osc circuit won't oscillate reliably until the supply voltage is at least 3.6 volts.
This discovery is going to make me change the design for this product to a 4.2 volt supply rail.