RS232 pin2(RX) to leg7(T2OUT) of max232
RS232 pin3(TX) to leg8(R2IN) of max232
Since the phone is a DCE device you must change your connection:

RS232 pin3(TX) to leg7(T2OUT) of max232
RS232 pin2(RX) to leg8(R2IN) of max232
Al.